Everyone who enters this world meets words nobody bothered to translate. Here is a BDSM and findom dictionary in Hebrew, from the side that sets the rules. I am Queen Kylie. Learn the terms before you write to me; I do not explain twice.

My Court is open on Telegram. Enter the Court →

Roles

• Dom / Domme — the one in control. In my court there is no dom; there is a queen.
• Sub — the one who surrenders control willingly. A subject, in the court's Hebrew.
• Slave — a sub who no longer asks. A rank, not an insult.
• Femdom — female domination. The guide.
• Dominatrix / Domme / Mistress — a woman who dominates professionally. Dominatrix in Israel.
• Brat — a sub who acts up to be punished. Once, in my court.
• Pay pig — a sub whose role is to be drained. On tribute.
• Keyholder — the woman who holds the key to his cage. Chastity.

Money

• Findom — financial domination: power moves through money. What is findom.
• Tribute — money that clears with no defined return. Not a payment.
• Drain — a session or period in which the sub is emptied to the agreed limit.
• Tithe — a fixed tribute on a fixed date. Not the amount: the day.
• Wishlist — what the queen wants to arrive. Mine is on Throne.
• Allowance — when the queen decides how much he may keep.

Control and body

• Chastity cage — a physical lock. She holds the key.
• Denial — no release. Tease and denial.
• Edging — to the edge and stop. Again. And again.
• Ruined orgasm — permission given and taken away halfway.
• JOI — instructions by voice. He decides nothing, including this.
• Foot worship / foot fetish — the Hebrew guide.
• Trampling — her foot on him. The most direct shape of «beneath me».
• Collar — a mark of ownership. Received, not bought. Mine is in the shop.
• Owned — the rank after the collar. Full training.
• Protocol — how to address, how to answer, when to be silent.
• Tasks — what is done between sessions and reported.

Safety

• Consent — the base of everything. Without it this is not BDSM; it is harm.
• SSC / RACK — «safe, sane, consensual» and «risk-aware consensual kink». Two frames for one principle.
• Safeword — one word that stops everything, at once, without argument.
• Soft / hard limits — what is stretched slowly, and what is never touched.
• Aftercare — the minutes after a hard session, in which he is brought back to the world.
• Subspace / sub drop — the state of deep submission, and the fall after it. That is what aftercare is for.

Kinds of session

• Virtual session — a call, video or messages in real time. How it works.
• Custom — a personalised clip, to his fantasy and my rules.
• Training — a structured path of surrender, devotion and ownership.
• TPE / 24/7 — total power exchange, all the time. The highest rank, and not for everyone.
• Sissy / cuckold — styles of domination that suit some. Not all.

Knowing the words does not make you a sub. Obeying them does.