The Findom Dictionary: Every Term a Beginner Sub Must Know

New to serving? Before you kneel before Queen Kylie, learn the language. Here is the beginner's dictionary of findom and femdom terms — everything a new sub must know.

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The essential terms

• Findom — financial domination; giving money as an act of submission. See What Is Findom?
• Tribute — money sent to honour a Queen, not to buy anything.
• Pay pig / cash pig — a sub whose devotion is expressed by paying.
• Cash slave / money slave — total financial servitude.
• Drain — repeated sending until the wallet is empty.
• Wallet / ATM / human ATM — nicknames for a paying sub.
• Domme / Mistress / Goddess / Queen — the dominant woman in charge.
• Sub / slave / servant — the one who obeys.
• Key holder — a Queen who controls a sub's chastity.
• Brat — a mouthy sub who resists (and gets tamed).
• Cuck — a sub aroused by his own inadequacy.
• JOI / CEI — instructed pleasure, entirely on Her command.
• Findom goddess — an experienced financial dominatrix, like Queen Kylie.

Learn the words. Then learn your place.

Now you're ready

You know the language — now use it. Read How to Serve a Findom Queen and introduce yourself to your Queen.